
I previously wrote a post asking the question: Could you give up television? After this post, I intentionally scaled back on the time I spent in front of the television.
Unfortunately, with my current bout of illness, I reverted to my bad habit of watching too much television. Or at least having it on in the background while I try to do other things.
Lately though, I have been questioning more than just the number of hours I spend watching television. I’ve been having a closer look at what sort of programs I watch on television.
Here are some questions to ask yourself to rethink your television viewing.
Is your life filled with psychopaths and serial killers?
This question, in particular, is where the idea started for this post. As I mentioned earlier, I have been a bit under the weather, so I have been watching more television than normal.
Out of the blue one day, I started to question how many programs I had watched that week that involved a psychopath, serial killer, child molester, or someone who had suffered a violent death. Though I didn’t come up with an exact figure, I realized it wouldn’t have been a pretty number. It would have been a high number.
While I am not a psychologist, I would imagine watching this sort of television all the time could be harmful over the long run. At the very least, I was finding it depressing. I was starting to have a few strange dreams (not to mention checking all of the doors were locked several times before I went to bed).
If you are watching too many shows where a dead body is lying on a slab, you might want to tweak your television viewing.
Let’s face it, if you want to see crime and violence, all you have to do is turn on the nightly news. Scary but true.
Are you watching people following their dreams yet doing nothing about your own?
It can be all too easy to sit back on our arse and watch people chase after their dreams. Good on them, we think.
We applaud them, we admire them.
Yet we still passively sit on our butt. We do nothing about our own hopes and dreams.
Use the people that inspire you on television to get up and pursue your own goals.
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Do you think reality TV is actually real?
Don’t even get me started on this one. I have never been a fan of reality television. I actually have a reality TV ban going on in my house. 🙂
In the beginning, I could appreciate some of the singing or dancing shows, because skill and talent were required. Some of the contestants were extremely talented, and it was fabulous to watch their growth and success.
But now that market is completely saturated, and those shows have lost their appeal for me.
Unfortunately, talent doesn’t rank high in many reality shows.
Most of them are what I define as elaborate rat experiments. Put a whole bunch of people in an extreme situation and watch them turn on each other.
So many of the reality television shows are crap. And yes, sometimes we all like to watch crap. I am as guilty of this as the next person. It can be an enjoyable form of escapism.
Just don’t delude yourself into believing reality TV is real.
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Do you think the people on dating / love shows are looking for love?
I hate to burst your happiness love bubble, but most of these people are not looking for love.
They are seeking fame.
Not to mention that the show itself isn’t trying to match people who will stay madly in love for decades to come; they are matching people to create drama. It’s all about creating drama and tension.
Reality TV stars (and I use that term very loosely) are seeking fame. You can now create a career out of going from one reality TV show to another, then another, then another. This apparently makes you a TV star.
A lot of the people on finding love shows are seeking TV careers, not the love of their life.
Do you get sucked in by the ads?
I have watched a few morning shows lately. You know the type – the ones that come complete with their own sponsors and in-show advertising.
The same shows that try to sell you an exercise machine that fits neatly under the bed (very helpful for collecting dust later). These are also the ones that show the same ads, over and over again until you are super convinced you really do need that ab thingamy jig that yeeha – you can use while you watch television.
Can you relate to any of the above? Are there certain types of shows you could do without or watch less of?
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Thea,
Thanks for this insightful post. I must say I have quietly asked myself many of the same questions you have just posed – and I quite like the way you have summarised them all for a more complete contemplation !!
With the emerging NBN, the evolution of digital media delivery (Foxtel, FetchTV and Tivo etc), even the convergence of internet applications from handheld devices through to ipads and the like – I think the humble TV is poised to become even more frightening – not only in the amount of time it will consume – but in the quality of time (think content) it will consume.
A very timly post to think about….
Michael.
Hi Michael
It was great to hear from you, thanks so much for your comment.
Interesting that you mentioned the new technology bringing more ways for us to up our tv consumption. After writing this post. I discovered several ways to watch tv via my laptop as well. You certainly don’t need a television to watch tv.
As you said, definitely something to think about…
Again great to see you here, I hope to see you back soon.
Cheers
Thea
OK, I have a confession to make. I currently have no TV. Actually that’s not entirely true. I have a TV but it is not hooked up to receive ANY TV channels (not even the free ones). It is only used to watch DVDs (a lot of educational ones as I’m currently home schooling my two kids). As you can probably guess from this comment so far, I’m not very conventional, but not having TV was not a big philosphical choice. We spent six months last winter travelling the worldas a family (like I say – unconventional) and when we returned to our home base in Canada we didn’t get round to hooking the TV up and signing back up with a cable provider. Days passed, then weeks and now months. I haven’t missed it at all and I’ve done a lot more writing. The kids say they miss it but only if you ask them. Otherwise they’re too busy playing outside or reading. I’m not suggesting that everyone should follow suit, but it just goes to show sometimes you don’t miss TV anywhere near as much as you think you will. Best of luck with cutting back!
Hi Karen
Thank you so much for your wonderful comment. I am sorry it has taken me so long to write back.
I was very impressed reading your email. I admire you for giving up television. I like the idea of having the tv but only watching DVD’s on it.
I do love the idea of being able to get more writing done, that appeals to me a lot. Television is such a massive time waster.
In your case I also think it is a wonderful way to spend more quality time with your children. I know parents are really busy but I don’t think some of them are spending enough time with their kids.
I love the fact that you took the family travelling for six months. Sounds wonderful. Good on you!!!
Thanks again for stopping by and I hope to see you here again soon.
Cheers
Thea