I have a question for you. Could you give up television? Is watching television something you spend a lot of time doing or it is not a consideration in your life?
To be clear, there is no judgment in my question. I enjoy watching television and do not want to give it up. However, I would like to cut down on how much television I consume.
When it comes to watching television we sometimes fall into bad habits. Here’s a quick overview of my television habits.
- Having the TV on for background noise. I mainly do this when I am cooking or cleaning.
- My real addiction (and I know I am not alone in this one) is streaming. Streaming has made it so easy to binge-watch one episode after another. It feels foreign to remember the days when we had to wait all week to see the next episode of our favorite show. I have also gotten into a nasty habit of sitting with my laptop on my lap (hence the name) while I watch television. I tell myself I will ‘work’ while I do this but in truth, all I do is Internet surf. If I was leaving comments on my favorite blogs at least I would accomplish something. The truth is that neither the laptop nor the television has my full attention. Consequently, nothing is achieved.
- I watch television while I eat dinner (yes that means I sit at the couch and not at the table).
- I use television to relax. After working during the day and then writing at night, I tend to flop in front of the television to unwind. Though I’m tired, I have found that if I go straight to bed, my mind is still racing with writing ideas and to-do lists. It takes me a lot longer to fall asleep. Instead, I numb myself with television first.
- Watching stuff I don’t like because the television is on and I feel like I need some time to rest.
The truth is many of us (including myself) watch too much television. For this post, let’s dive into the benefits of watching less television.
Quality time with family
I remember growing up and watching a lot of television with my family. The problem is that it wasn’t a bonding experience. It didn’t bring us closer as a family. We all watched in silence barely interacting. Hardly a quality time experience.
There are a lot of activities that families could participate in to spend quality time together. Board games, jigsaw puzzles, and outside activities are just the beginning of a long list.
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Creative pursuits
Think of all of the things you can create with the time you spend watching television. Whether you are a writer, painter, baker, artist, dancer or singer. Imagine what you could do with a huge chunk of spare time.
Related post – How to Be More Creative
More free time
Think about how much time you spend watching television. If you did the math I think you would be amazed by how high your number is.
Think of what you could do with all of that time. The next time you hear yourself saying, I don’t have time for that, think about how much time you spend watching television. You probably do have the time, you’re just not making the most of the time you do have.
Improve your health
We all know that sitting for long periods is bad for our health. Watching television is all about sitting. Not to mention the unhealthy food that we tend to consume when we sit and watch television. Think along the lines of chips, popcorn, ice cream, and chocolate.
Fewer television means sitting idly eating unhealthy food.
Improve your mental health
There is a lot of negativity and toxic behavior on television, and I am not just talking about the nightly news! Reality television shows thrive on toxic behavior. Murder, violence, and torture are commonplace.
Save money
Your television costs money to run and many homes have more than large flat screen television. More than that however is the way advertising influences your spending. You see ads on television and decide that you need things that you don’t. It’s not just the advertising that influences your decisions. The programs themselves can influence how you spend your money.
What are your specific television habits? How could you personally benefit from cutting down on your television consumption?
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I never think it’s a good idea to try to “give up” anything, because your focus is on what you’re missing. That’s setting up for a fail. Instead of trying to cut back on TV, focus on getting more interested in life. I “quit” watching TV years ago and don’t miss it one bit. It wasn’t by deliberate effort; just a consequence of getting busy living. In fact these days I can’t stand 99% of the junk that’s on. 1% of the junk is good for occasional distraction.
Hi Lach
Very good point on the not trying to ‘give up’. We can tend to obsess about what we are missing. I love your idea of focussing more on getting interested in life. I can certainly relate to that. I can not think of a better motivator than getting busy living and doing the things that you love!
Thanks for your great comment, I appreciate your feedback. Great to have you here.
Cheers
Thea
Thea when the Iraq war started (yep 8 years ago) I decided I didnt want to see the pictures, even the news breaks were doing my head in. I moved the TV into the spare room and went in there once a week to watch Secret Life of Us. I cant for the life of me think what made me move it back out!
PS I was still reading about the war I just didnt want the pictures.
Hi Ally
I like your idea of keeping the tv in a different room and only going in to watch it when you really want to see a particular show every now and then.
I sometimes wonder what my loungeroom would look and feel like, if everything was not focused on this one item in the room? The furniture is set up to get a good view of the tv, everything is pointing in that direction. The tv seems to be the central point of attention. Now that I have realised that, I am not sure I am thrilled about it. I wonder what I would put in the big hole in my tv cabinet if the tv was not there?
Any suggestions?
Cheers
Thea
Hi Thea,
thanks for your honest introspection of your TV habits.
In our home, we’ve got an outdated, nearly 9 year-old TV set. A friend of my eldest daughter (turning 10) wonders if it’s even possible to watch TV with it. Our kids watch a few selected programmes on a computer (no longer than 1 hour a day) with tight parental control. My wife occasionally watches, I don’t watch TV, apart from some German matches at the Soccer Worldcup, but I missed some because of business building activities or team calls.
The activities in our spare time make us rich. Even watching TV can be helpful. I revcently met a guy who gets new keyword ideas from watching Oprah and creates new websites successfully with this input. This makes him rich.
Most people however will use it as an excuse for watching TV that they might learn something. That will keep them poor.
I wish you a successful TV diet.
Take care
Oliver
Hi Oliver
Lovely to see you here!
Thank you for sharing the story of the guy who comes up with creative ideas from watching television. That is very clever and it is great to realise it can also have some very positive benefits.
I had a chuckle reading about how your daughter’s friend wondered how you watch a 9 year old tv. How funny! If its not a flat screen, kids probably don’t consider it a tv nowadays. I actually hate to think how old my tv is. It has been with me a long time, over several home moves and a few stints in storage as well.
Thank you so much for your great comment.
Cheers
Thea
Hey Thea,
If it were not for my husband, I probably would not even turn the darn thing on!
I find that most shows bore me, and I end up eating for amusement (not good for the waist-line!)
I cut back to about 1 hour per day when I got online, just to unwind before going to bed. Have not regretted it for one minute!!!
Thanks for sharing.
Hi Nancy
I definitely hear you on the eating for amusement score. I think we do tend to eat more when perched in front of the television.
That is really great that you got your viewing time down. Good on you!!
Thanks for your comment. Great to see you here.
Cheers
Thea